2008年4月30日 星期三
2008年4月29日 星期二
會過去的…
說時遲那時快,細佬的厭奶期過去了,他又再乖乖吃奶,比以前更乖,每次都沒有歎奶,不停吃,吃完很快打個飽嗝。另外,我都好乖,越來越聽媽媽話,沒有再吐飯,沒有再賴尿,媽媽早前對我定下的目標我都做到了。最近還學會被媽媽用牙膏牙刷刷完牙後"秀"口,看來,我因為細佬來臨而反叛和剛剛返學而不安的情況都得到改善,媽媽想,再辛苦的時間都會過去,如果我們願意捱過去,往後的日子會很美好的,所以面對困難,有時會覺得前路茫茫,但是只要不放棄,繼續努力,總可以有美的事情來臨的。
另一方面,爸爸媽媽早前見的政府工暫時沒有著落,爸爸媽媽都很失落,尤其是爸爸,他說要面對這個事實的時間很難過,這不緊要,像細佬的厭奶期和我的反叛期,更難過都會過。
2008年4月28日 星期一
難過的一天
今早媽媽去了面試,答得不好,媽媽很不開心。
但係媽媽都可以撐過去,因為有爸爸支持,爸爸媽媽今日安排了很多事要辦,都一一辦妥,包括替細佬弄一本特區護照,替我弄返學午睡用的床單和被袋,換尿片(不是更換尿片,是拿coupon去換些尿片回家),接我放學。
我放學的時候見到媽媽,我很開心呀,朱老師都說她是第一次見我的爸爸媽媽,是啊!早前媽媽見的,原來不是朱老師,這個才是。余老師每次見到媽媽,都要把我的妙語講給媽媽知。
余老師:『我們笑她穿豹紋褲,今天津津跟我們說:『我唔著豹紋褲』』
余老師:『我給津津看一張相,津津說:『我覺得你好靚呀』』
余老師:『我問津津:『你今日有無喊呀?』津津說:『喊少少啦』,但係其實係喊好大聲』,不過此時朱老師都補充說我只是返學哭,其他時間不會哭了。
原本媽媽打算接我回家,但芳姨說大哥哥女友想見我,叫媽媽晚一點才接我回家,媽媽想這樣都好,因為她昨晚失眠,爸爸又作病了,想回家休息一會,但又怕我會扭計,所以趁著我矇盛盛向著芳姨家走的時候,靜靜離開。
陪爸爸去了看醫生,媽媽覺得十分累,加上想到面試的表現那麼差,大哭起來,也不想接我回家了。
媽媽:不開心,因為媽媽覺得犠牲了鄧以大細,卻什麼也沒有達到,津津的老師,竟然才第一次見面,到現在,才第一次接津津放學,腦海裡浮現津津見到媽媽接放學的快樂樣子,向芳姨家走的背影,覺得為了事業放棄與津津相處的時光,實在是很殘忍,鄧以大細的成長只得一次,照顧爸爸也是我的責任,很難取捨。
2008年4月27日 星期日
媽媽又溫習了
公公婆婆把我送回家時,細舅父也同來,送我一間小屋。
2008年4月26日 星期六
2008年4月25日 星期五
2008年4月24日 星期四
媽媽病倒了
媽媽很辛苦,早前因為著了涼,又沒有好好休息,終於病倒了,雖然身體已經很累,但照顧我和細佬的工作每天都要繼續,細佬最近吃奶吃得不好,很早就叫媽媽起床,而媽媽的工作亦只可以休息一天,辛苦死了。
2008年4月23日 星期三
Funny conversation
- 正當爸爸跟契媽傾電話,媽媽又正在照顧細佬,我自己玩玩具,然後我吩咐爸爸,『唔好郁,雙手放係大脾,dup低頭』,轉個身,我發現爸爸郁了,又再吩咐他說,『唔好郁,雙手放係大脾,dup低頭』。
- 媽媽用單車推我返學,她說:『你下次要自己踩架啦』,我回答說:『我唔夠高呀』。
- 我現在可以講電話,公公打電話來,我拿著跟他說:『我頭先係呢到跌親呀』,有時又會點頭示意,哎呀!我何時才知道我家的電話是沒有視像的。
- 我未夠高按升降機的掣,媽媽跟我解釋我不可只吃菜菜,要多吃米飯才會高的。今天我們家到大舅父家吃飯,吃完飯準備回家,我總是第一個跑出門,當爸爸媽媽才剛剛踏出門口,我已噼噼啪啪跑到升降機門前,再噼噼啪啪走到媽媽跟前,很開心地跟媽媽說:『我㩒到呀』,媽媽去看看,我雖是夠高可以按到,但太細力按不著,媽媽叫我再來一次,這次才行。
- 聽清楚了,我的同學不是梁志健,是楊志杰,還有一位,是曾樂謙。爸爸想:『為何都是男同學的?』
- 每次細佬便便後,媽媽跟細佬換片,我都:『我睇,我睇』,當看到那些便便,我就會問媽媽:『媽媽你食唔食呀?』(其實我是從媽媽那裡學的,她問過我一次,我以後就跟著問,所以說話不要講啊!)
- 戒了片片後,我試過三次賴屎屎,第一次由婆婆處理。第二次,我告訴爸爸:『地下有屎屎呀』,爸爸才發現,大件事!第三次,我給媽媽看看大腿的一點屎屎,跟媽媽說:『媽媽,污糟o左』,媽媽看看,不是污糟o左,係勁污糟,整個屁股,地地都有!
- 媽媽有時會打我,她要我拿出手手,我拿出的時候,看到媽媽想打,我又驚又縮手,媽媽堅持要我拿出手手,最多打得細力一點,久而久之,媽媽打我的時候,我又驚又會說:『細細力呀』。
- 很多時候,我的說話都是學媽媽的。有時候,有人問我一些難題,我會答:『er….我唔知道呀』。
- 有一個星期六,媽媽起床準備返工,我都跟著醒了,我坐到我的小枱子,打開上面的報紙說:『我睇報紙』,怎知媽媽跟我說她要返工,我哭著走到媽媽面前擁著媽媽叫她不要返工,後來爸爸都醒了,他跟我說他不用返工,我才肯放媽媽走。
- 有一天晚上,媽媽跟我睡覺的時候,她跟我說明天我要返學,我說:『我唔返學』,媽媽問:『咁媽媽呢?』我答:『媽媽唔好返工』,媽媽再問:『咁爸爸呢?』我答:『爸爸唔好返工』,媽媽再問:『咁細佬呢?』我答:『細佬唔好去芳姨到』,媽媽心想:『津津真的很清醒啊!』其實媽媽也很想一家人在一起不用各散東西,但是為了對社會有貢獻,我們要各自努力,唯有晚上才一家團聚吧﹗
- 有一天晚上,電視播『霍完甲』,有一個大隻佬,媽媽說這個是STRONG MAN,我看到他打人,很驚呀,跟媽媽說:『媽媽唔好睇Strong man』。
- 有一天,我夾到手手,跟媽媽說:『手手好痛呀』,媽媽問:『係唔係媽媽夾到你呀?』,我答:『津津自己唔小心』,媽媽心想:『你個人仔又無講大話喎』。
2008年4月22日 星期二
Another~
Mama received an interview invitation of a government post she previously applied. It is really a very harsh training to mama’s EQ and patience. Mama is too tired to go to work, to look after chaichai and me and to prepare for interview at the same time…Mama just know that one of her ex-colleague get an offer of permanent post. Wow!!! How great is it! This is a reward that worthy of mama’s hard work.
“Mama, work hard. Don’t fall short our great support and expectation!”
2008年4月21日 星期一
Depressed
Mama has completed her mission to interview for a contract post in EPD. It was the fourth government post mama has applied and result was pending. For all of them, mama did not have any expectation at first. However, as the results were pending, more and more false appearance came up in mama’s brain. Mama even cannot concentrate on her work and became depressed. What a great challenge to mama’s EQ! Can the time pass quickly and pass to the time when the results be released? Knowing there will not be a chance would be even better than just waiting.
2008年4月20日 星期日
Happy Sunday
Mama and I already dressed up. Oh~ chaichai, how can your hair be so untidy?
About the wine shop, mama really appreciated uncle Ivan papa’s braveness.
One year ago, when mama was struggling with her previous job, mama heard that uncle Ivan has quitted his job of being an accountant without any offer. Uncle Ivan mentioned that it was too harsh to work as an accountant and he really want to take a rest. After staying at home for a two-month time, uncle Ivan decided to work as an agent in selling wine. Now, uncle Ivan already became a boss who own a wine shop. Conversely, mama now is still working in the construction industry. Mama thought that uncle Ivan’s experience is a good model for mama to struggle for a better career.
Then we took photos and played in the playground.
Today, we had our dinner at 大舅父’s home.
細舅父 introduced to his friends that “Ayden showed naughtiness on his face while chaichai showed quietness on his face”. Do you agree?
Mama was happy as she brought a very good present for Ayden.
2008年4月19日 星期六
Mama work hard II
Saturday was the hardest day for mama if it was a long week. Mama had to prepare for a presentation and took minutes for a long meeting. In addition, mama know that papa has to look after both chunchun and chaichai on his own. Today was even worse as mama did not have enough sleep yesterday and there was a rainstorm. When mama backed home, she found herself even could not feed chaichai. Then mama went to sleep for two hours.
Recently, chaichai was undergoing 厭奶期. He did not cry for milk for several hours. He cried if you feed him milk. He could only finish a half bottle even if he drink the milk.
2008年4月18日 星期五
Chaichai's 100-day
Having prepared, having plenty of sleep, having the backup of auntie fong and 婆婆and having the greatest support from papa, I really hope that mama could get the job successfully.
Today, we had a wonderful time with my extended family. Mama has organized a 100-day party for chaichai. It was a very simple but warm and happy party. Mama at first has no idea on how to celebrate chaichai’s 100-day. Mama at first decided not to banquet as it would spend mama a lot of effort to prepare. However, when mama saw chaichai’s lovely face, mama did not want chaichai to be so lonely in his 100-day. Thus, mama decided to organize such a party despite mama’s busywork.
I was happy as I love blowing candle.
Chaichai and cousin Ayden were also happy when they saw and play each other.
Mamapapa were happy as we were happy.
婆婆has not came as she has to take a rest after looking after chunchun for a whole day.
However, mama has to work until midnight for tomorrow’s presentation.
2008年4月17日 星期四
Mama work hard
In order to concentrate on preparing an interview, mama did not bring chaichai and me home. Mama asked auntie fong and 婆婆 to look after chaichai and me respectively. Mama was too tired that she fell asleep at once after work. In mid-night, mama found her leg jerking. Mama really needed to take a deep rest.
2008年4月15日 星期二
生生性性
最近,我變得很乖很乖,沒有再賴尿尿,自己叫去痾朱朱 ; 沒有欺負細佬,反而學爸爸媽媽一樣跟他說話惹他笑 ; 沒有吐飯飯、沒有掉玩具,沒有發脾氣…不過,對奶奶卻變得很依賴,每天早晨都哭著要奶奶,還指定要用大奶樽,媽媽很體諒我,因為我剛剛轉全日返學,可能還未適應,所以都盡量滿足我的心理需要。
有一天,媽媽嬲了爸爸,想很重語氣地話爸爸,每當媽媽出聲,我便講一些說話中斷媽媽。
『津津痾好多尿尿呀』
『(指著相架中的津津)呢個津津騎馬馬』
『媽媽做乜野呀』
媽媽忘記了津津講些什麼,但中斷媽媽的話超過十次,我的用意大家都應該明白,我不想看到媽媽罵人。
2008年4月14日 星期一
2008年4月13日 星期日
Cycling
Mama thought that it is very harsh to pick up chunchun to the nursery by hand. Therefore, mama tried to use my tricycle. Now, the tricycle was driven by mama. I hope I can ride the tricycle by myself soon.
Starting from last Saturday, I could tell papamama that I need to go to toilet. I haven't wet my trousers then. Papamama was so happy about that. I even told mama 『梁志健賴尿』﹙Mama guess that I should be one of chunchun's classmate. However, the name is same as one of the manager in mama's company who is also the brother of New World CEO!!). Mama thus asked me not to wet my trousers or my classmates would tell their parents that 『鄧以津賴尿』.
2008年4月12日 星期六
Hong Kong Park
This is the pose of my own style.
This is the pose forced my mama.
Papa and chaichai are handsome.
Can you recognised? This is called "whole family T-in-T".
At first, I was so afraid. I became wooden when I sat on the swing. Suddenly, I cried for mama to hold. But, after a while, I requested mama to let me sit on the swing again. I became very happy this time.
2008年4月11日 星期五
BBQ
媽媽叫我起床,說是帶我去街街不讓爸爸知道,我乖乖起床,但我見媽媽替我穿校,我心感不妙,已經開始扭計說:『唔著呢個』,再穿鞋子:『唔著呢個鞋』,再帶著書包:『唔好帶書包』,媽媽沒有理會,繼續抱著我走,行到一半,見到我的一位同學仔,同學仔媽媽叫我落地地行,媽媽說因為時間太趕,不讓我自己走了。差不多到學校,我又扭計說:『唔好返學』,哭起來,見到余老師,馬上要她抱我。朱老師告訴媽媽,有一天我見到一個笑著的火車印仔,我說:『港鐵笑呀』。
放學時, 媽媽發現余老師又替我紥了兩條很可愛的辮辮,媽媽再替我穿得靚靚,因為今天有很充實的活動呢!
首先是約了媽媽舊同事吃飯,兩位同事都是剛剛在07年和08年榮升為爸爸的,07年那位帶著小寶寶,不過因為中午時間大家都開始眼訓,所以沒有交流都只顧睡覺,但是大人們的交流真多,講講小朋友,講講生產過程,講講新工作。因為有某些原因要開刀生產的那位媽媽說,她一醒了就說有個寶寶,沒有順產那種感覺,是的,媽媽想起來,的確很自豪是親身去經歷寶寶出世的一刻,真正用盡力去讓小寶寶出世,那些又痛又驚險的經歷,很難忘,媽媽見到我的那一刻,有點生氣,怎麼媽媽那麼痛,我卻在安然無恙地睡覺,而齊齊出世的一刻,媽媽很感動,哭了出來,感到自己完成使命了。大家一講講到三時多,爸爸抱細佬先走,媽媽多傾一會才走,怎麼爸爸會那麼趕?因為下一場活動又開始了。
爸爸媽媽的大學同學來我們家打麻雀和bbq,媽媽抱著我回家,起初很陌生,要纏著媽媽,媽媽抱我坐著她的大腿都不夠:『媽媽抱高d』,要擁著的。不過當媽媽要打麻雀,我開始跟wing姐姐玩玩具,很快,我不怕陌生,跟哥哥姐姐玩得很開心,拿起小寶寶要wing姐姐跟她紥辮辮。
爸爸要去買燒烤食物,剩下vincent哥哥、wing姐姐、媽媽、細佬和我在公園,我又跟wing姐姐玩,我很喜歡wing姐姐,除掉自己的手鍊給她帶,在滑梯玩時說:『哥哥唔好行,姐姐行』。事關姐姐實在很有愛心和很細心,媽媽餵細佬吃奶時,由姐姐照顧我,又帶我去洗手又跟我玩,後來我手仔有蚊蚊咬又給我塗膏藥。vincent哥哥也很有愛心,他見我跌倒了就馬上放下通話中的電話抱起我,其間姐姐和媽媽都發覺我的哭泣是沒有眼淚的。順帶一提,vincent哥哥和wing姐姐快要結婚了,希望這對充滿愛心的夫妻百年好合,永結同心。再順帶一提,wing姐姐一直是媽媽心目中的最佳女朋友,又細心又溫柔又體貼又孝順又叻又好人,媽媽也因為他們結婚而感到很開心。
bbq開始,我當然沒有一刻靜下來,四園走,媽媽看到一條蟲蟲,叫我指著牠拍照。觀察大自然是媽媽覺得要讓孩子上的一課。細佬就做回他自己,很乖地看著大家。突然有雨落下,大家匆忙回家,幸好我們家五臟雖少,麻雀俱全,有很多儲備食物,也有焗爐煮熟燒烤食物,說起來真慚愧,大家都有幫手煮食,反而我媽媽只會食不會煮。後來爸爸拿出我的相簿給大家看,我自己看著,不停形容自己的狀況。
『呢個津津食雪糕呀』
『呢個津津咁樣』(見到津津被被子蓋著咀咀,就用手蓋著咀咀)
媽媽見到津津那麼喜歡看自己的相片,感到拍照真的可以幫助小孩建立自信。
tim叔叔跟我玩畫公仔要我估,我大都估出來,大家都讚我叻。很來有很喜歡畫畫的華哥哥跟著我心口的一隻蜜蜂畫出來,問我是什麼,我答:『蝴蝶』,華哥哥問:『咁你衫衫果隻呢?』,我答:『蜜蜂』,傷了華哥哥的心。
蟲蟲呀~~~~~
細佬幾乖~~
vincent哥哥和wing姐姐
2008年4月10日 星期四
津津的祈禱
嫲嫲 also told mama that I need to pray before having my dinner. "天父,多謝你,賜俾我,有食物,祈禱奉主耶穌之名,阿門". Papamama were very happy about that. Mama wanted to teach me to pray and thank God for giving chaichai's milk later.
2008年4月9日 星期三
Three-month old
Today was the three-month birthday of chaichai. I have to thank God for giving him a good health and growth in the previous three months. Chaichai, let us play hard and grow hard. I hope that you can play with me very soon.
Today, I did not wet my trousers during napping at the nursery. However, auntie fong complained me for shouting intentionally in front of sleeping chaichai making him frightened.
When papamama picked me home, I sang the song 神愛我愛你 again. This time, more words could be heard clearly. Mama asked me what song I would like to sing. "唱主耶穌", I answered.
Papamana planned to have their wedding photo taking on 28 September 2008. Chaichai and I will wear ceremonial dress and join the activity. All of us are excited. Papamama said that they have to spend effort to keep fit. Yeah~~~
2008年4月8日 星期二
My sister-Tang Yee Chai
咦?我地屋企幾時多o左位妹妹架?
笑容又幾甜美喎!
呢個造型都唔錯!
不過成日走光o既?!
我認得你個江澤民頭啦,原來係鄧以齊。
事緣有人送給媽媽一些小女孩的衣服,媽媽覺得很美,想轉送他人前給齊齊穿上,哈哈!
今日去o左探剛去完泰國玩的細舅父,他送給我和媽媽最多手信,包括每人一件泰國衫,爸爸都有禮物的,細舅父真好!細舅父叫公公婆婆遲些也一起去泰國遊,媽媽也想加入,不過都係想去日本多一點。
好多人都話細佬似爸爸,你地覺得似唔似呀?
First Full School Day
Today was the first day to stay in the nursery for a full day. I could not sleep in the afternoon and even wetted my trouser. Auntie Fong found me wear a sad face when she picked me up from the nursery. I think I need some time to get familiar with this.
It was really tired to go to school for a whole day. Therefore I asked for milk at 9:30pm and then fell asleep at 10pm by myself. Chaichai was even better. He fell asleep at 10:30pm after his meal and slept quietly until 7am in the morning.
Papamama were very happy to have a good sleep tonight. Yeah~
2008年4月7日 星期一
PASS!!
嫲嫲was sick. Thus papamama asked auntie fong to look after me. When auntie fong picked me up from the nursery, she asked me what do I want to eat? "揸橙汁呀!", I said.
I performed well so the teacher let me to pass to the last stage of the transition. Starting from tomorrow, I will go to school for a full day. It was a good news for papamama as they would not need to ask 嫲嫲 to look after me anymore. But to me, it is too early to say it is a good news.
Today, I repeatly sang the song: 俾我地…芒果食…香蕉食…雀仔吱吱…. Mama could recognized what is it.
神愛我愛你,做天空大地,做o左好多樹木俾我地,又有香蕉樹,仲有芒果樹,仲有西瓜番茄滿田園,雀仔吱吱叫,兔仔蹦蹦跳,仲有狗仔日日尾搖搖,願你多歡樂,願你多享受,頌讚主恩到永遠。
Not only this, I suddenly sang "CLEARLY" the songs that mama teached me before. "head and shoulder" "London bridge is falling down".
2008年4月6日 星期日
Playground
At around 5pm, having finished all the housework, papamama decided to bring me back. However, 公公said chunchun refused to leave the playground. Then papamama brought along chaichai and went to playground to play with me. Chunchun was really happy. Chaichai was happy too. See~
Papamama agreed that their happiness was come from chunchun and chaichai and their entertainment was make chunchun and chaichai happy. Not to do something for themselves anymore.
Then papamama went shopping. They bought some foods for the use of the heat oven. Yeah~
2008年4月4日 星期五
又係Mega box
Mama found that Miss Yu has braided my hair in a pair of pigtails. Very nice and cute. Miss Yu told mama that I put my hand on my head preventing her to braid my hair and said "媽媽紥辮辮". Papamama brought me to take student photo at once before my hair become untidy. Then I also played in the ball pool and waving train. Yes. They were my favourite.
姨婆 asked mama to play mahjong together and one of my 表姑姐 want to buy me new clothes with her newly released salary. Then we went to shop at Mega Box again. Finally, 表姑姐 bought one for me and one for chaichai.
2008年4月3日 星期四
大便
芳姨在放假前千叮萬囑媽媽要給我吃橙橙,媽媽因為太忙沒有跟著做,終於出事了。媽媽見我谷屎,馬上抱我坐痰罐,我谷到面紅了,出了一半,好辛苦,跟媽媽說︰『好難呀』,媽媽說:『爭少少,痾完唔痛架啦』,我要把手手按著痰罐兩邊,出力,才可以完事。完事了,媽媽抱著我,差點心痛得哭了出來,媽媽心想,若日後津津生孩了,那麼媽媽會怎樣。
雖然有點不雅,但這個過程,津津實在很可愛,又爭氣又乖,也可以提醒媽媽要叫我吃橙橙。
2008年4月2日 星期三
乖乖津津
有時候,乖乖不只是細佬的專利,我有時都會乖的。
今天媽媽起床後,梳洗換衫,曬衫衫,還要應付不停叫喚媽媽的我,媽媽想:『與其這樣,不如也叫津津幫手』,於是媽媽教我從洗衣機逐件衫拿給媽媽,我真的跟著做,還越做越起勁,跑著做,手腳比媽媽還要快,拿著衫衫叫媽媽,爸爸又一起幫忙。原來一家人分工合作是那麼好的!
2008年4月1日 星期二
妙問妙答
又係時候,分享一下我的有趣事︰
1. 有一次,媽媽問我:『爸爸媽媽結婚,好唔好?』我擰擰頭說︰『爸爸媽媽津津結婚』。
2. 最近,媽媽去了做負離子(沒有剪髮),回到家裡,我望著媽媽說:『媽媽剪頭髮』媽媽心想︰『咁都眼得出?』爸爸才承認是他告訴我的。
3. 嫲嫲留有長指甲,有一次,嫲嫲替我清潔便便後,我指著嫲嫲的手說:『呢個整到我好痛呀』。
4. 有一次,嫲嫲在我家照顧我,她上厠所時我不願留在厠所外,嫲嫲只好開著門,我說:『嫲嫲好核突』。
5. 有一次,表姑姐問我:『細佬乖唔乖?』我說:『唔乖,細佬嘔奶』,表姑姐再問我:『咁津津乖唔乖?』我說:『唔乖,津津吐飯飯』。
6. 有一次,我和媽媽上厠所,聽到水喉發出嗚嗚聲,我問:『咩聲呀?』媽媽很詳細解釋:『因為沖了水水,要添水水入水箱到,水喉有水經過,咪會嗚嗚聲囉』,我呆望著媽媽,問:『你明唔明白呀?』
7. 晚上,媽媽常常會跟我講故事,多是回憶一天的事,媽媽想我回憶一下我返學的活動,所以後來,媽媽叫我講個故事來聽聽,我說:『從前呀,有,哥哥姐姐啦』,完了。最近,加多一句:『從前呀,有,哥哥姐姐啦,你明唔明白呀?』。媽媽近來,常常跟我講龜兔賽跑,聽講後,現在我講故事是這樣的:『從前呀,有烏龜,去跑步啦,好犀利呀』。媽媽最近教我,希望我學會講一個完整的:『從前呀,有烏龜,同兔仔去跑步啦,烏龜好慢,兔仔好快,兔仔訓覺覺豬,烏龜贏o左呀』。現在還未可以。
8. 有一首歌是"家燕媽媽",爸爸把歌詞改成"鄧以津津"和"鄧以齊齊",我都跟爸爸一起改歌詞"鄧以小寶寶",最近更會唱"鄧以電視機"。